Tia (named changed for privacy) didn’t go looking for porn. Instead, she found her brother’s “stash” as a young teen. “It was accidental at first,” explains Tia, “And once I saw it, I knew I wasn’t ‘s…
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Guest interview with Christian Stanley ## “If you give your kid access to the world, the world then has access to them...and the internet is gobbling up our teens.” — Christian Stanley That sobering t…
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Ever wondered what life after porn could look like? We recently interviewed Brant Cole -- husband, father, pastor, and former porn addict turned porn recovery coach. "Back in 2016, after literally so …
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“My partner said it was ‘just privacy.’ But what he really meant was secrecy—and that destroyed everything.” When trust is shattered by pornography addiction, partners often find themselves questionin…
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If porn hasn’t invaded your family, you’re one of the very fortunate few. For all the other battle-weary moms and dads, tired of combatting the online onslaught of hyper-sexualized content, fellow mom…
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My name is Austin. I've struggled with a pornography addiction for many years now. I can't remember how long it's been. It's been a while, and it's been a struggle! I can speak into this, because I've…
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Fighting porn can feel like “rolling a boulder up a mountain”. When you experience a porn relapse after enjoying freedom from porn, you may be saying, I just relapsed again! Am I ever going to win thi…
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What if a harmless gaming chat turned into exposure to explicit content? What if a stranger messaged your child in private?? Discord may seem like a safe space, but it’s full of hidden risks. This art…
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Are you struggling secretly with porn and worried because you can’t seem to make any progress? Before things spiral further out of control for you or someone you love, let’s dive into the reasons why …
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If you struggle with anxiety and you also watch porn, have you seriously considered that pornography use could be contributing to the problem? In a recent National Library of Medicine article research…
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Whether you're seeking help for yourself or a loved one, our community will tell you that recovery from a porn addiction is not only possible, it’s absolutely within reach. However, that timeline will…
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Living a life of duplicity Making the hard choice - honesty What it took to rebuild trust after betrayal Why choosing sexual integrity matters Focusing on the long view For those of you who ask for tr…
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Are you frequently hiding an ongoing porn habit – and wondering to yourself, Is porn bad enough to really worry about? You’re not alone! In 2024 survey data collected by Barna, not only do 61% of adul…
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“I hope it was a freak accident that I saw porn in his search history,” says one anonymous wife in an online forum, *“but I’m worried that it wasn’t. He’s seemed off – moody and distant lately.” *Othe…
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Lots of people secretly wonder - is watching porn cheating? (Just check Google’s search 1+ billion search results). Surprisingly, 44% of U.S. adults recently surveyed by Barna believe watching porn ha…
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If you’re here looking for porn addiction help, you’ve taken a powerful positive step. “Healing is within reach,” promises Terry Crews, who recently posted publicly celebrating his 14 year anniversary…
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Children all over the world are finding pornography before they even hit middle school – simply by innocently playing online games or researching for a school project. Or, all too frequently, they hav…
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We're honored to share our interview with author and therapist, Sam Jolman, who recently published his book for men: The Sex Talk You Never Got Sam answers the question "why men watch porn", addressin…
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“I haven’t watched porn in two months, and I’m not really experiencing any benefits. Seems like there’s not any point in quitting.” One guy’s honest question on the porn-free subreddit sparked a good …
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If you’re searching for answers to questions like “How much porn is an addiction,” chances are something feels off in your life. Or, you may be seeking answers for someone you love. You’re not alone! …
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Are you frustrated because you can’t make it past a monthly or weekly streak – or even a daily dose of porn? Perhaps it’s time to ask yourself what porn addiction signs you should take seriously. Is a…
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A popular “women and accountability meme” circulated the internet a few years back, claiming that women regularly fail to hold themselves accountable for their actions. However, we’re highlighting som…
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Shared by permission: The following is an excerpt from Faith and Sex: Toward a Better Understanding of Recovery, Being, Relationship, and God by Steven A. Luff, M.Div, MA. Luff is a Licensed Marriage …
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Jourdan, a young wife of a former porn addict, strongly encourages accountability apps for porn recovery on her popular TikTok channel @ThatsNotLove. She praises Ever Accountable for helping to restor…
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Have you had a personal D-Day? As far back as 20 years ago, D-Day in a romantic relationship referred to a traumatic discovery or disclosure of porn use. Jaco chooses not dwell on his D-Day, but inste…
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“Nobody wants to talk about the abuse - the rape - that happens in the porn industry…Porn abuses people,” Rachael states boldly. She’s a musician and creator who’s recently begun sharing parts of her …
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they speak in proverbial locker-room talk or dirty jokes. *And that lack of healthy conversation* becomes an embodied ache or frustration we carry within our sexuality.” ~ Sam Jolman Therapist and aut…
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Steven Luff, licensed family and marriage therapist, describes how he hit rock bottom before discovering keys to real change. In 2005, he ditched porn never to look back, but the “worst” was yet to co…
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Sources like Medical News Today boldly state: “There is currently no large-scale, conclusive evidence to support the idea that pornography use causes depression or that people with depression are more…
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Book review: Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships, by Barb Winters “Pornography was in our home for years without my knowledge. The day I learned that my fourteen …
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I first started on my journey of recovery in 2010. My life was misery, living in the dark, with a lot of self loathing that just kind of paralyzed me. Paralyzed by self-loathing: how porn affected Eri…
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Is your teen’s nose glued to their screen, endlessly scrolling TikTok? Then this stat won’t surprise YOU! A 2022 Pew Research Center study notes that in the United States alone, two-thirds of 13 to 17…
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I discovered pornography at a pretty young age, like many other guys. In fact, I was first exposed to it through a classmate at my Christian school ironically enough – in 6th grade. I didn't even real…
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Part 2 of our AI-generated porn awareness series: (updated August 2025) “In many ways, we have failed to prepare ourselves and our children for the advent of social media... But we have the chance to …
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" Swift is far from the only woman, famous or otherwise, to have been subjected to AI-generated explicit images of themselves without their permission…Swifties have been vocal in the need for more pro…
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Could your mindset be holding you back on your porn recovery journey? Here's some food for thought. Consider how life coaching has evolved into a massive billion dollar industry in the past five years…
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First of all, we truly hope you’re not actually home alone for the holidays. But we know some of you are, so please know that we care. Perhaps you’ve even chosen solitude as a form of healing on your …
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Any social media app with private messaging poses a serious risk to teens for exposure to p\rn, predators, and sextortion - as recently highlighted in The Wall Street Journal*. Law enforcement officer…
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As the holiday season approaches, we need to acknowledge something uncomfortable. Many of us are not okay. We’re anxious, stressed, and grieving. According to Reuters, an estimated 9.9 million America…
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A 2022 Pew Research study notes: “Today, two-in-ten Americans say they trust the government in Washington to do what is right just about always (2%) or most of the time (19%).” A max trust factor of 1…
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In the name of sexual freedom, some people say porn is sex positive. But that’s not how Amu experienced pornography when it took hold of her life in her pre-teen years. Breaking the Bondage of Porn: A…
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Are you questioning the benefits of accountability as you fight your personal battle against porn? Asking for help with a porn habit is often a tough first step. Or, porn may have wrecked your life so…
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We're so grateful for customers who are willing to share their stories to help others on their journey to freedom from porn! Here's one especially for fathers. (Trigger warning for those in recovery f…
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Many of us enjoy vibing daily to our Spotify playlists. But, is Spotify safe for anyone struggling with porn use? As parents and valued customers, you deserve to know the hidden facts about Spotify. I…
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Several customers recently stepped forward to share their stories. The common thread? They all wanted to help encourage someone else! We’re so grateful for Cole bravely sharing his story with you. Beh…
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Are your young teens on social media platforms like Instagram? If so, do you wonder how to help your teen use Instagram safely? At what age is it even considered “safe” to let your child use Instagram…
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You never think it will happen to your child, until you get a gut-wrenching private message from a distraught friend filing a missing child report. Though her teenage son was swiftly found several sta…
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Choosing to be accountable on your Mac is a real ninja move! We admire and respect you deeply for taking this step. Additionally, setting up accountability for yourself on all of your devices, not jus…
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Choosing accountability is a big bold step forward. We admire and respect you deeply for taking this step! Additionally, setting up accountability on all of your devices, not just your phone, is a big…
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Have you tried other accountability apps only to find out they just don’t work the way you want on Apple? We get a fair amount of customer support questions like this: “Hey, does Ever Accountable ACTU…
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Stigma. Shame. Silence. Jessica Harris, who started watching porn at 13, was fearful when she finally came clean about her porn use. But the leadership at her Christian college intentionally raised th…
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Is legal sex work actually safe and empowering for both porn actors and viewers? So we’re told. But there are porn industry secrets you should know. Underneath the glamor, there’s a dark, upside-down,…
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Children are suffering from the effects of early sexualization. One major culprit is early exposure to porn. Usually this is due to initial accidental exposure. In this article we refer to a variety o…
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(Please note that this article could be triggering to those recovering from pornography. However, for the sake of domestic violence and sexual abuse victims, we feel this is a needed topic.) We believ…
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So many express shame and guilt over porn use. You may feel absolutely stuck in that pattern. However, we've seen others battle porn successfully. "It IS possible!" says Amu, a successful and passiona…
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Maybe you’re saying, No way. Not going to talk about this topic. Watching porn doesn’t begin to compare with hiring a prostitute. That’s okay. You can click past this article. But if you’re wondering …
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Wondering how to talk to your partner about porn? If having a conversation about porn with your spouse or potential partner feels awkward and difficult, you’re not alone. If you’re a millennial or you…
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Kids and porn. Those two words shouldn’t even ever belong in the same sentence. However, pornography consumption spreads across the globe like a tidal wave. Speaking up and speaking out about the harm…
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When you think of the most desirable, intimate moments in life, what comes to mind? If your mind leaps straight to sex, that’s understandable. After all, we’re bombarded by sexual messages and innuend…
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“How do you make your phone and other tech safe for your kids?” This is a frequently asked question in parenting circles. When this topic comes up among my friends, I understand the frustration and an…
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An ancient wisdom proverb says, “How good is a timely word!” When you’re seeking answers to life’s problems, you know there’s someone who has walked a similar path before you. And you’d like to pick t…
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Porn and marriage don’t make a good partnership. Whether used infrequently or compulsively, porn can have a devastating effect on both partners. https://youtu.be/54xco7Z5Xb0?si=S3yONMEdfqyPVEep Table …
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How many of us think that porn industry sex trafficking is a foreign problem in a faraway place or another continent -- like perhaps Eastern Europe, Africa, or Asia? Not long ago I had the same idea t…
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Maybe you’ve been caught red-handed in your porn habit, and shame has sent you into hiding. You know you’re guilty as charged. You WANT to quit porn. But guilt’s evil twin shame sends you running righ…
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Not surprisingly, neuroscience and psychologists have uncovered links to personal trauma and porn use, especially for those struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors. Any sort of past traumatic even…
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