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05 Jun
Faith and Sex: a how-to-guide for porn recovery and real change Steven Luff, licensed family and marriage therapist, describes how he hit rock bottom before discovering keys to real change. In 2005, he ditched porn never…
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12 Apr
TikTok And Teens: Hidden Dangers Every Parent Should Know And What To Do Next Is your teen’s nose glued to their screen, endlessly scrolling TikTok? Then this stat won’t surprise YOU! A 2022 Pew Research Center study notes that…
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06 Mar
6 Signs of a Pornographic Style of Relating Guest repost from Dr. Andrew Bauman, LMHC, author and co-founder of the Christian Counseling Center. His passion is to:“work with both individuals and couples in…
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16 Feb
How Quitting Porn Helped My Marriage (before it even started) Marriage is hard. Can I get an amen? I’m Ken Anderson, a fellow porn fighter. I’d like to share with you why quitting porn helped…
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14 Feb
📣New Ever Accountable features 🆘 Help & Relapse buttons (and how to use them) Asking for help in a weak moment can be tough! Now we’ve made it easier.We’re SO excited to introduce brand-new in-app features: our in-app, “I…
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05 Jan
Introducing Ascend: an accessible online porn recovery program Could your mindset be holding you back on your porn recovery journey?Here's some food for thought.Consider how life coaching has evolved into a massive billion…
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30 Oct
How to Help Your Partner with Recurring Porn Slip-Ups: A Guide for Accountability Partners “Please help! I’ve had a major slip-up, and I’ve been watching porn again!” Your friend Jamie (fictional name) has just reached out. Now what do…
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12 Jul
10 Powerful Benefits of Accountability (how to enjoy them today) Are you questioning the benefits of accountability as you fight your personal battle against porn? Asking for help with a porn habit is often a…
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