This is an extremely important question. Choosing a great accountability partner will help eliminate the urge to view porn. Consider these things when choosing the right person, they need to be:
A supportive accountability partner cares deeply and know that it is a process. This person should be non-judgemental, honest and understands that no one is perfect. It’s helpful if they have similar values or have been through a similar experience.
Accountability partners need to be trustworthy so that honesty can flourish. Reliability is important! Accountability partners need to view reports in a timely manner and not be afraid to call someone out when needed, and have those tough conversations.
When we find someone with these qualities, even when you stumble, we “fail forward” and grow. We will have the support you need to succeed.